Great Migration To Lagos.part 3

All that matters is just that you wanna read and get too awakened with the intellectual activities.I do really believe the best way to psyche up your self in a country in which almost every citizen is lonely and suffocated with dearth of social safety net is basically to be able to critically and affordably access the information from every angle irrespective of what stressful measures you deploy or resort to for the sake of possession at your disposal.These critical channels do not exclude the newsstands and I could say with all due sense of responsibility the challenge of making it in Nigeria beyond being an artisan is extremely quite complex even to the willing folks .I do not blame the merciless insurgents and skyrocketing proportion of the human suicide rate and the plummet of the life expectancy in the country.Males especially the family men are becoming fast endangered species delighted with false hopes optimistic about nothing and under pressure of instant death citing the pressure to provide for their families and the shrinking mettle of the labour force.There can be no doubt that the strength or fortitude of the family determine the competitive strength or the internal competitiveness of the children as they grow up fully integrated into the social space prior to design of their own autonomous independent self motivating drive.Moreso as it is that sense of competent competitiveness which has nothing to do with education is basically inborn.This spirit of internal structure to berth internal competitiveness create buffers for external competitiveness upon which education glides as glossy arrow of foreign conquest.Now we know without entrepreneurship and creative thinking or strategic thinking it is an excellent exercise in futility.It is the exclusive preserve of the parent to teach the child how to think which they do effectively well which I once called traditional thinking but not creative or strategic thinking.Since the schools hardly teach this item the parents should take the onus to strike the cannon balls.The psychology of the child crashes once they suffer dearth of such enabling structure and feel extremely inferior in the terrorizing influence of social space.They get to know this bitter truth when they grow up beyond what even their parent could comprehend and begin to interrogate everything.But for visionary parents or those fortunate towards or succeeded in restrengthening the earlier survival framework inherited from their parent either through the same inherited structure or their mental drive for addendum or additional provision to strengthen their inherited organic family support structure equally passed onto their generation the sky is the limit.I do not support bringing a child into the world without the wherewithal to cater for them and for every passing time when a family is blessed with a child the challenge of survival is often higher even for the rich.It may be incomprehensible in the first instance as child or children grow up they either destroy things or build or rebuild things.Most children or little folks grow up with tendencies to destroy things rather build up .I think it is embarrassingly obvious even the few success stories when they strike they barely strike positively but destructively with bleeding their erstwhile robust family structure that bring them up in the world through same survival basket especially when they re not been equipped not with education per say but entrepreneurship and vision to make the best switch from self dependence defense into independence defense.I Ve heard of stories of rich kid and I was shocked inspire of lavish expenditures brokered by the parents grown ups still find it very hard to take family entrepreneurship to the next level only concerned towards disposal of extant family assets for their own survival.I think I instead of expansion of family wealth their concerns were basically to dispose almost all existing family assets ever undervaluing them in the process.Creative thinking is the most cherished asset for without it education is useless and entrepreneurship is nothing.The childish movement from dependent slavery  into independent freedom is quite complicated than we think which is why guys find it so much difficult to survive where entrepreneurship is warped.One might think they do manage the survival wholeheartedly but they barely have the audacity to bare their heart on many critical issues upon which they re afraid.This build up internal strains and organic stress on their  support structure and when the organic pressure upon the struggle break apart it rallies support for inorganic structure often the non existent support structure or social safety even where extant the quality of access is zero and often impossible let alone their quantity.People live under this tangible proof of stress until they die slowly in silence till final kaput yet government ,policy makers and captains of industry barely see it.It does not spare the rich who maybe lucky to have provided for their generation and kids with this system of internal structure and organic structure,still stress of entrepreneurship and badly trained kids with no multiplier mentalilty too complex than we imagine could accelerate the road to untimely death.I do believe our survival rate in Lagos like elsewhere nation wide was somehow miraculous and not based on artisanal arsenal though to a lower extent by this pantheon of infernal brunts where many lopsided loops quite magically work in our favor but certainly father's assets no matter how small is a major saviour until the big bang of our wondrous opulence as every thing tallies according to plan.

The stinky and putrid smells of family life is the most challenging work of arts in any clime and endeavors.Apparently it tends to emasculate the most intelligent folks and humble any form of intense intelligence you might have or profess to have in the critical course of family engineering which is why hardly any one ever succeeded in effectively managing family clinic and related careers beyond my wildest dreams without proper understanding of standard family economy that mordern economic textbook hardly preaches.An aggregate of which in a broad economy is well catered for in due sense.We don't understand this uncontrollable and incontrovertible source of public suicide.Still divorce rates on the rise where single families dote their besieged burden everywhere unattended too even by the winds,the hands of nature.