May 5, 2025

A Good friend

By Adeshola Abraham 

Proverbs 17:17 A friend loveth at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.

Wherever you live and whatever your profession, 'butcher, baker, or candlestick maker', you will have to deal with these three kinds of people: 

(1) The critic. Let's face it, most people are comfortable with the status quo. They not only fear change but will often attack it. So if you dare to be different, prepare to sail through some rough seas. The apostle Paul's critics referred to him as a madman, a fool and a babbler (Acts 17:18). So why would you expect the same crowd to treat you any better?

(2) The cautious. These people won't point an accusing finger, but neither will they extend a helping hand. When you get into trouble, they will distance themselves from you, fearing they may be tainted by your perceived liabilities. Basically, they will wait to see if you make it through the tunnel and come out the other side. Then they will wait to see who else accepts you and if you can be of benefit to them. Then they may reconnect with you. These people are users. They are not bad; they're just self-serving. So love them, but don't lean on them.

(3) The committed. Based on the anchor scripture for today, even when they hear the worst about you, the committed still believe the best about you. They value you for your strengths and show grace in handling your weaknesses. These people are priceless because they will love you 'at all times'. So when God puts such a person into your life, protect and nurture your relationship with them.

As you go in the journey of life, I pray the Lord opens your eyes of the mind to know who truly belongs in your life and receive grace to do the needful in Jesus name. Amen.

Good Morning and enjoy your weekend to glory of God.

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